Showing posts with label simplicity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label simplicity. Show all posts

Friday, August 8, 2014

SQT: Bizarro World, ToddlerStrong, Bathroom Talk, Breakfast, & the Quest for Simplicity







I'm going to start with what is making me speechless. These headlines:

Report from Iraq: families throwing children from a mountain to keep them from terrorists.
ISIS Beheading Children in Iraq
I can't. I just can't read it anymore. So I hear we are taking action finally. I wish I were more optimistic about the outcome of that. For now I just join in prayer for our truly persecuted brothers and sisters. It looks like the US Bishops have chosen August 17th as our national day of prayers for Iraqi (and Syrian) Christians under attack. Let us continue to pray every day and join together as one body in Christ with all our Christian brothers and sisters to pray the devil back to hell. We know God's promises are lasting, so let's grab on and go forth with bold expectations of what He will do for us if we ask in faith.

We had family photos taken on Wednesday. Did I mention that our children do NOT like to simultaneously look at the camera and smile on command? Poor Katie. I do believe that we witnessed a miracle as she got more than one photo with everyone looking at the camera. Now to sit down with the Hubs and decide which of those two maybe three photos will the winner!

When we pulled into the church where we had our photos taken, there were the most beautiful sunflowers. I'm a sucker for sunflowers. Unfortunately, the lighting and the toddlers did not cooperate for a family photo with them.





I"m not really sure what led to a meltdown of epic proportions Wednesday night (I blame ridiculous bedtime antics by all little creatures). Let's just say there was a baaaad episode. The kind where one half of my mind is diving into the darkest, deepest waters and the other half is smacking that half around saying "get it together - you know better!" There were moments where I was simply just upset with myself for not having moved past all this and wondering whether there would ever be a time where I would just keep it together. Through the sobs, I started reading my devotional which pretty much hit right where it hurt, but in a good way. I couldn't tell you now what it was that I prayed - I'm not sure there was any conscious and calculated prayer at all. I just know that while I was still a bit on the funky cold medina side the next morning, I also kept coming across things that served to remind me that there is struggle on this wild ride we are on, but that God remains with us. As I was driving in to work, what popped into my head was that it was not such a bad thing that I am a mess. It's better that I get frustrated with myself than simply coast through live without a care. It is actually good that I am restless, even if I'm not all that young.




We are in full toddler swing around here. Heaping helpings of "no!" and "I do it MYSELF!" and screaming followed by flopping on the floor. I wish I could tell you which child it was, but I am afraid it is both of them. We have started simply giving them five minutes in isolation, but I don't know how well it is working. The house is such, that these end up being in their bedrooms many times, and I know I don't want them to associate their bedrooms with punishment. Any thoughts out there? Tried and true solutions that have worked? As long as I'm in the asking mood, how about battling potty training? We are mostly there with the three year old, but she will NOT, I repeat NOT, sit on the toilet and stink it up, if you know what I mean. Our bathroom is really too small for her to have her own potty seat, and she has gone on more than one occasion before. She just will not do it now. Ever. Without all antics mentioned above. Oh, and school starts in three weeks. To quote the Beatles, "HELP!"



While many of you are in a panic with the start of another homeschooling year, we are biting our nails as we approach creating a new routine when Gia starts pre-school. Hubs is back to work on Monday, and she starts after Labor Day. I'm exciting and nervous at the same time. We are not early risers around here, and school starts at 8:15. Also, this makes me feel like I need to ante up as a mom. So far it's been small potatoes. Now begins that phase of classroom treats, teacher conferences, possibly school friends and parties...much bigger stakes! I can't wait to see how she blossoms as she enters the classroom. We are raising a nerd, fo' sho'!


Looking ahead to earlier mornings and possibly better habits, I have one word: breakfast. I have a hate/hate relationship with breakfast. I'm more a fan of second breakfast. (Can you have a second breakfast if you didn't really partake of the first?) So...I need your help again. What are some easy peasy lemon squeezy (but not real lemons) savory, healthy breakfasts? It is a rare morning where I can wolf down the sweet stuff. I've been thinking about getting some quinoa and keeping that in the fridge like a savory oatmeal-ish dish. Maybe mixing in some eggs and spinach. But variety. I needeth variety. And simplicity. Mama is not at her best in the wee hours of the morn (which is defined as anything before 9 a.m.). Grazie!!



Last, but not least...well kind of least...I have finally dug into Jen Hatmaker's book, 7. I had started it months ago, but was clearly not ready. Now, I am ready. Well, more ready. Have any of your read her book? Have you followed suit with her exercises in curbing excess? I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences! In the interest of full disclosure, I'm still in the middle of the first chapter on food and only a few days into reading. I'm intrigued though. Much praying and discerning, but I am ready to start climbing out of my excess. I haven't broached this with the Hubs yet to extend it to the whole family. Oh, husbaaaand.......!

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Friday, April 5, 2013

7 Quick Takes: Happy Easter!

1) Lent is over! Hallelujah! How did I celebrate? By buying more iDevices. What do you mean that isn't the spirit of Lenten sacrifice? Other people get candy - this is my candy, and it comes with a purpose. I've been talking about doing more writing, and after the last few weekends of conferences, the Hubbers may have finally convinced me to write my conversion story. (I'm not sold on the idea that there would be any takers on reading or publishing it, but that's a mountain to conquer another day.) Lugging out my laptop with the littles gets a bit cumbersome, and daytime honestly isn't even a good time to write. I'm a night owl, so putting the baby to sleep is when I'm at my most prolific. Having this iPad is making it much easier to get some writing done. Perhaps too much, as is evidenced by the increased volume of posts with the Easter Alphabet Challenge. As counterintuitive as it might seem, and as much as it may in the end be rationalizing our purchase of new toys, we are also hoping these purchases will help us to simplify. I told you it was counterintuitive.

2) Simplification nĂºmero uno? We have finally taken the plunge and said sayonara to cable. With the upgrade to our Internet service to fuel some streaming (EWTN - I don't even kid!), we are saving around $50/Month. Perhaps as we detach, we will also in the future find we spend less time in front of the tube and more time reading or pursuing other interests. Working out might be a new adventure for me, or cleaning, but let's not get to crazy at once!
Simplification hope part deux: thrift more. This one really only involves me for now. I've decided that for the next year, as best as I can as old habits are hard to break, I am going to first attempt to find items for myself via thrift/resale shops. Depending on whether it is a need or a want (very little actually ever falls into the need category), I may allow myself leniency on the timeframe I have to find the object. This allows me to start small, but I am kind of excited! First item up - a new spring jacket, preferably of the cute trench variety. I have found a couple at Target that I really like as a measure, so we shall see what secondhand Sally has to offer me over the next weeks.

3) Our little princess is a bit of a Scrooge McDuck! She loves coins. She loves money. It made Easter egg hunting super easy, of course. Just a few pennies and assorted coins later, she was thrilled with the whole thing. As she exclaimed herself, "I love Easter eggs!!!" That's great, sugar pie - can mama borrow some money?" We had a lovely Easter minus the tantrums all in all (see #4). A walk to the local ice cream stand before our backyard hunt ended at Tim Hortons as it is apparently still too early for ice cream. Li'l G also loves her donuts. And tiaras. And pretty princess dresses she can twirl in while wearing her tiara. And money. Judah just loves to move. And chew. And smile. The boy is just happy as long as he is not restrained for long (also see #4).


4) Our grace period has run out. For two and a half years, we have enjoyed children who behaved at Mass. We are now the ones with the banshees. My apologies to any parent I may have ever looked at with judgment or pity. I am now that parent. Li'l G is a talker. She has a remarkable vocabulary and expressions which she is compelled to share at all waking hours. Oh, did I mention that if you try to tell her no or to be quiet, she lets out a shrill scream? It's really quite lovely. Is my sarcasm coming through? Her boisterousness then incites the grunting of Baby J, who though not yet talking, is not content if he is not moving. Our standard Catholic calisthenics at Mass have changed greatly - we've moved into the toddler edition. Maybe I should explore that whole working out thing some more lest my arms one day do actually fall off from restraining children...

5) We have a tooth!! It's finally popped through! Though not quite yet visible to the naked eye from a mouth that doesn't want to stay open to show off a pearly white tip, you can definitely feel it with every bite of the finger. Ouch. 
Bonus - Li'l G is learning to color inside the lines!
I'm pretty sure we have a prodigy on our hands. ;-)

6) Sleep has been hard to come by. I miss it. The one time the kids did sleep, our CO alarm went off in the middle of the night. It isn't that they aren't able to sleep through the night if all is well. Unfortunately, baby J has been having a rough battle with eczema or dermatitis or whatever he current diagnosis is. When he wakes up in the middle of the night, he is itchy and cannot be soothed no matter how much lotion I schlep onto him. It is frustrating on many levels. I hate watching him be miserable and not be able to soothe him. I hate that he doesn't sleep enough. I hate that I don't sleep enough. I hate all this so much that I dropped a pretty penny yesterday collecting all kinds of remedies to start working through them one by one to see what will finally work. Last night, Aveeno oatmeal soak with oatmeal based lotion. Better, but not perfect, and today seems more aggravated. Lovely. Do any of you know of a miracle cure?

7) I was going to write about my noble plans for Easter here. But life interrupted. Li'l G has what appears to be a splinter in her foot. How in the heck does one get a splinter out of their child's foot? I have no trouble torturing myself to get out a splinter, but I am no lancing expert. Trying to get the thing out was impossible, not to mention torturous on the both of us as I tried to gently coax it out. I bribed her with a Dora bandaid to let me keep trying which only worked so long...not to mention she wanted the bandaid on her finger. I'm offering a little Veggie Tales pirates as a peace offering for now and a bribe for the future. I'll let you know how it turns out....

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